Their playing field is the parking lot itself and the goal is a sexual encounter, usually quick and anonymous. The other end is popular with another set with a much lower profile in this suburban setting: gay men cruising for sex. At one end of the lot, retirees arrive to practice their golf and mothers in minivans gather to wait for their Little Leaguers. There is a narrow parking lot in Cunningham Park in Queens surrounded by playing fields for adult softball and youth soccer and baseball.